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Such third party cookies may track your use of the website. By continuing to use the site you agree to our cookies policy. Cancer and its treatment can change how you think and feel about your body. You may feel sad, angry or worried about any changes to your body. You may have scarring, weight loss, physical discomfort, numbness or other side effects of treatment that can make you feel self conscious or affect your confidence.
Talking about how you feel can help you cope. You could talk to someone close to you or you could ask your specialist nurse for help. If you have a stoma, you may have strong feelings about the sudden and significant change to your body. Over time, and with support from your stoma care nurse specialist, you will learn to adapt to your new body. Getting through the first few weeks can be tough and you may feel like you have a mountain to climb, but remember family, friends and health professionals are there to help you.
Until you get used to looking after your stoma, you might worry about smells or leakage. You may worry that other people can see the pouch through your clothes and you may wonder how other people will respond to your new stoma. Your stoma care nurse specialist can help you with any worries you may have. Having a stoma should not stop you doing the things you enjoy.
There are companies that sell underwear, swimwear and other products that can help you feel more comfortable. Ask your stoma care nurse specialist for more information. Changes to your body can lead to sexual problems if you feel self conscious, you find sex uncomfortable or you are worried about new relationships. If you have a partner, working together and being open about the effect of treatment on your sex life can help you both. Being physically and emotionally close with your partner may help you feel better able to cope with cancer.
